With the number of online and do-it-yourself (DIY) legal
providers continuing to grow, some of individuals may be wondering if they
could do their estate planning themselves. The advertising is seductive: attorneys
use similar forms, the cost is significantly less than hiring an attorney, and
many of these websites and kits are created by attorneys. In addition, most
people think their estates are not complicated, and many think they are just as
smart as (or smarter than) professionals. 

Most professionals know that DIY estate planning can be very
dangerous. While completing the forms may seem easy and straightforward, a
single mistake or omission can have far reaching complications that only come
to light after the person has died. With that person not here to explain his or
her intentions, the heirs could end up disappointed and confused, and could end
up paying much more in legal help to try to sort things out after the fact than
it would have cost in the first place.

 Those contemplating the DIY route should consider the
following: 

  • Legal Expertise: Experienced estate planning attorneys have
    the technical expertise to draft documents correctly. Yes, they may use
    pre-drafted forms to start from,
    but they know what to change and how to change it to make your plan work
    the way you want. They also understand the technical terms and legal
    requirements in your state. Laws vary greatly from state to state, and a
    DIY program or kit may not tell you everything you need to know to prevent
    your plan from being thrown out by the court. 
  • Counseling: Attorneys are called “counselors at law” for a
    reason. Most estate planning attorneys have counseled many families and
    they have seen the results of proper and improper planning. An experienced
    attorney can guide you with delicate decisions, including who should be
    the guardian of your minor children; how to provide for a child or elderly
    parent who has special needs without interrupting valuable government
    benefits; how to provide for your children fairly (which may not be
    equally); and how you can protect an inheritance from creditors and
    irresponsible spending. 
  • Explanation of Intentions: If there is any confusion as to
    what your intentions were after you are gone, the attorney who counseled
    you will be able to explain them. This unbiased interpretation from
    someone who does not stand to benefit from your plan can help to avoid
    costly litigation by your beneficiaries and even maintain the validity of
    your documents. 
  • Coordination of Assets: A will only
    controls assets that are titled in your name. You probably have other
    assets that are controlled by a contract, joint ownership and/or
    beneficiary designations; these include IRAs, 401(k)s, joint bank
    accounts, real estate and life insurance. A will does not control these
    assets. An experience estate planning attorney will know how to coordinate
    these so that your assets are distributed the way you want to those you
    want to have them. 
  • Tax Planning: The federal estate tax exemption has been a
    moving target in recent years. The current $5 million exemption is set to
    expire at the end of 2012 and, if Congress does nothing, it will reduce to
    $1 million in 2013. Also, many states have their own death or inheritance
    tax, often at much lower exemptions than the federal tax. Careful
    professional planning is a must in order to avoid paying too much federal
    and/or state tax. 
  • Same Sex and Other Relationships: Because laws are frequently
    changing and vary greatly from state to state, it is vital to have updated
    advice from a competent professional. Without proper planning, many rights
    may be limited for unmarried cohabitants. Providing for your pets may also
    be very important to you. 
  • Complexity and Cost: Most people think their estate planning
    will be simple. But the reality is, most of us discover we do need some
    personalized planning…and you may not know that without the guidance and
    counseling of an experienced attorney. It is far better to spend a little
    more now and make sure your plan is created correctly than to try to save
    a few dollars and have things turn out badly later. You won’t be around
    then to straighten things out. Don’t you think you owe it to those you
    love to do this the right way? 

Here are some things all of us can do to help keep costs
down:

  • Become educated consumers.
    The more we learn and understand about estate planning, the less time an
    attorney will need to spend educating us as to the process.
  • Prepare a list of assets
    and liabilities; gather relevant documents (deeds, titles, beneficiary
    designations, etc.); consider beneficiaries and any special needs they may
    have.
  • Shop around a bit. Ask
    friends and acquaintances for referrals. If costs are a concern, let the
    attorney know up front that you are concerned about costs; he/she may be
    willing to work with you to keep them as low as possible.
  • Consider what you think
    you want, but be open to the attorney’s suggestions.